WHY STORIES ON GAYS AND LESBIANS ARE NO LONGER A SHOCK IN KENYA

BY FR JOACHIM OMOLO OUKO, AJ
NAIROBI-KENYA
FRIDAY, JUNE 24, 2011

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Even though in most societies, the only known marriage is between man and woman, the gay communities do not to admit this fact, even the fact that God created Adam and Eve for the purpose of procreation and not same sex partnership.

A story appearing in one of the daily newspapers today that there has been an increase in the number of men and women claiming to be lesbians or gays is just few stories revealing that gays and lesbians live among us and will always be with us.

For many Kenyans it came as a big shock that the practice thrives in Eldoret Town, especially in Huruma estate in Uasin Gishu County. In Eldoret the gays even have their website dating and charting lines-Men seeking men, Eldoret, Kenya – GAY Adult Singles – gay dating …

The story of Mercy Wafula and Amondi Lavenda who are living together as husband and wife give the picture that same sex marriage is a reality in Kenya that cannot be denied. The story describes how the relationship between Mercy and Lavenda started while in high school when she was in form three while her partner was in form one.

This is not the first time media reported how lesbianism is taking root in most of Kenyan girls’ boarding schools. Early this year many Kenyans were treated to shocking news when it was revealed that three female students were taken to court for assaulting another female student for refusing to take part in lesbianism affairs.

There are several stories and narratives about this issue- with one schoolgirl narrating how she was involved in lesbianism when she was15 years. She got interested when she saw her friends in school teaching themselves how to kiss and how they experimented with each other before they can actually kiss a boy.

There was nothing Jane (not her real name) could do when she joined high school, but to be involved in kissing which always ended in an affair. Her partner was in form three and she describes how they loved each other to the extent that they could not do very well in class.

What they did at night was ever kissing even if that night they could not engage in sexual affairs. When she tried to come out of this habit it was not so easy for Jane. The more she tried to come out the more she found herself in the affair.

Because Jane was so beautiful other girls she said also tried to lure her into affairs but she was afraid of Rose (not her real name) her partner with whom she was in love- in case she discovered that she was moving with other girls.

Similar story appearing last year in some of our local dailies also revealed that the 19-year-old schoolgirl with five same-sex partners -one of them 15 years her senior-were in serious lesbianism affairs.

According to the story she could no longer stand her lesbian lifestyle, despite the fact that it was at odd with the norms according to which she was raised. She knew all along that the act was not proper but she just found herself, not only doing it but enjoying it as well.

The habit is not only with students, but even teachers with students like the story of Rosemary (not her real name), a form two student who media reported recently to have fallen in love with a teacher in an all-girls boarding school.

According to the story, since she was a class prefect, Ms Caroline-her biology teacher used to tell her that every evening she collects all the assignments-take to her room for corrections. It was here that the teacher slowly lured her to an affair until she finished form four.

Rosemary had lost both parents so she was an orphan. The teacher assured her that she would take care of her transport home, give her pocket money and do her some shopping when school opens. So that could be the reason she accepted to have an affair with Caroline.

Rosemary who finished her forth form last year and now looking forward to joining aviation college says she still have strong feelings for her Caroline and during December and April this year she had to pay her a visit for one week.

Like Rosemary, according to today’s story it took Mercy quite some time to express her feelings to Lavenda, as she did not know how she would react. “I could watch her daily leave for classes, since we shared the dormitory. Her beauty, body size and elegant walking style summarised her whole being.”

And the story continued: “I decided to start by being her friend -call it courtship; we could go for meals together. I would buy her “escort” (bread, ndazi, samosa, etc) during breakfast and even help her wash her clothes so that I could win her.”

It takes time to get used to the habit, but as media reports it happened when rain started and decided to stay back in the dormitory as they waited for the rain to stop so that they could proceed to the classroom for preps-and as they were lying in their beds when other girls had gone, she kissed Lavenda and that was how their long anticipate affair began.

Recently Ms Nancy Ms Baraza became under heavy attack when she said she has through her research established that the Kenya Medical Research Institute puts the gays and lesbians at 15 per cent of the Kenyan population, which the National Aids and STIs Control Programme is grappling with.

She became under attack because according to the vast majority of Kenyans it is not true that there are many gays and lesbians in Kenya- it is just the creation of the media they believe.

Parliament was specifically thrown into an uproar last week after Nominated MP Millie Odhiambo claimed that 15 per cent of her colleagues are gay. Her remarks drew sharp criticism and numerous points of order from MPs who demanded that she substantiate her claim or withdraw and apologise.

Millie, who was seconding the motion moved by the chairman of the Constitution Implementation and Oversight Committee Abdikadir Mohammed, stood her ground saying she was quoting from a report presented to the committee by lawyer Betty Murungi.

Only assistant minister Kilemi Mwiria came to her defence confirming that the report had been tabled before the committee. But still even after Justice Minister Mutula Kilonzo informed the House that the report indicated that 15 per cent of all Kenyans are gay, MPs still denied there are such a big number of gay and lesbians in Kenya.

One fact for sure it is true-that the number of gays and lesbians is on the increase, not only in Kenya but a global concern. Last year groups of gays kissed publicly as Pope Benedict XVI visited Spain- Gay kiss protest against Pope | Video | Reuters.com.

A crowd of about 200 gay men and women in Barcelona staged a massive make-out session in front of the Pope Sunday as he was driven through town in the bullet-proof Popemobile on his way to celebrate mass at one of the city’s basilicas.

While Christians maintain that man was created by God and given the power to multiply, like scientists gay people say man evolved from apes which derive from an apelike ancestor that lived on earth a few million years ago through a combination of environmental and genetic factors which emerged as a species to produce the variety of ethnicities seen today.

They rely on scientific study of evolution which began in the mid-nineteenth century, when research into the fossil record and the diversity of living organisms convinced most scientists that species evolve as it became widely accepted in the 1870s- caricatures of Charles Darwin with an ape or monkey body that symbolised evolution.

The gays also argue that since the first eleven chapters of Genesis have been relegated to the category of myths, not real history, they only contain spiritual truth, but they cannot be taken seriously as records of real people and events.

According to Genesis 1:-2:24 the creation week consists of eight divine commands executed over six days, followed by a seventh day of rest- First day: God creates light The light is divided from the darkness, and “day” and “night” are named. Second day: God command—to divide the waters above from the waters below. The firmament is named “skies”.

Third day: God commands the waters below to be gathered together in one place, and dry land to appear. God commands the earth to bring forth grass, plants, and fruit-bearing trees. Fourth day: God creates lights in the firmament-to separate light from darkness and to mark days, seasons and years.

Fifth day: God commands the sea to “teem with living creatures”, and birds to fly across the heavens. He creates birds and sea creatures, and commands them to be fruitful and multiply. Sixth day: God commands the land to bring forth living creatures. He makes wild beasts, livestock and reptiles.

He then creates man in His “image” and “likeness”. He later gives him a wife as a helper after God realised the man was lonely. God named man Adam and woman Eve. They are told to “be fruitful, and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it.” The totality of creation is described by God as “very good.” Seventh day: God, having completed the heavens and the earth, rests from His work, and blesses and sanctifies the seventh day.

While the gays refute first eleven chapters of Genesis as true story, Christians maintain it is since in Genesis 5, the record of Adam ends with the expression “this is the book of the generations of Adam.”

Christians argue there is no reason to suppose that Adam and his descendants were not able to write and keep records, remembering that on the sixth day of creation Adam named all the animals, thus demonstrating his intellectual capacity.

This study of Genesis Chapter 5 is the fifth of eleven in a series of studies of the first 11 chapters of the Book of Genesis. It portrays that the book was the written account of Adam’s line. When God created man, he made him in the likeness of God. 2 He created them male and female and blessed them. And when they were created, he called them “man.”

And when Adam had lived 130 years, he had a son in his own likeness, in his own image; and he named him Seth. 4 After Seth was born, Adam lived 800 years and had other sons and daughters. Altogether, Adam lived 930 years, and then he died.

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9 thoughts on “WHY STORIES ON GAYS AND LESBIANS ARE NO LONGER A SHOCK IN KENYA

  1. Michelle Adhoch

    Live and let live is what i would say.someone’s lifestyle is their own choice as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone is how this may be argued but in kenya,anything out of the norm is considered strange or even wrong.hmm….

  2. franko

    this seems to be the trend today, not only in kenya, women going with other women. it now appears half the women out there are lesbians, very disgusting, if you ask me. these women to me will always be filthy, dirty, low life pigs. this is also the reason why good straight men like me are having a very hard time meeting straight women today. i surly cannot blame myself for this. i go out a lot and i seem to meet very sad, and troubled women, and a lot of them do not like men which kind of explains it. are there any decent women out there? i would like to hear from you.

  3. wanja

    i think the problem is a simple matter of labeling. There is a big difference between being lesbian, and engaging in lesbian activity.
    the very fact that this is happening in boarding schools just tells that its not real lesbianism, its just experimentation. hey you’re a teenager with raging hormones with nothing but the other sex around you, you’re bound to try it. not to mention there are no consequences, such as unwanted pregnancies. i am heterosexual, but i wouldn’t mind messing with a girl, does that make me a lesbian? no
    the scientific data says gays/lesbians are born that way they know from a very early age . if ur sexual orientation was simply influenced based on whether u went to a mixed or same sex school, you are only deluding yourself, you are just as straight as the rest of us

  4. Emmy

    NOBODY is born a homosexual. People choose to be homosexuals because of lust. Homosexuality is mentioned in the Bible along with sins like fornicators, adulterers, idolaters, thieves, greedy people, drunkards, extortioners and such people will NOT inherit God’s Kingdom (1Corinthians 6:9-11) UNLESS they LEAVE those bad habits. Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed because of their homosexual habits and the world today has become WORSE than those two cities. People think it’s cool to be homosexuals and dress it up by saying that they are “gay.” It’s a NASTY habit but hey… the God of the Bible created man with the frewill to CHOOSE and that’s why in Ecclesistes 11:9 He says, “…walk in the ways of your heart and in the things seen by your eyes. But know that on account of ALL these the true God will bring you into judgment.” Afterall even in Sodom and Gomorrah they were so stubborn and the men even wanted to have sexual relations with the angels that God sent to destroy those two cities and what happened? God rained fire and sulphur on them and they ALL perished. The same judgment awaits the stubborn ones of today.

  5. vanessa

    i am bisexual but i preffer sex with ladies beccause i find much safer compared to when am having sex with men..it is not lowlife or shameful coz atleast i have the benefit of the doubt..am in campus right now and believe me you.,sex is like a breakfast meal.i would rather have safe sex with a lady than unprotected sex with a man coz i cant risk getting pregnant..

  6. Daniel

    Homosexuality is an abormination.the bible talks of the end times in which people od the same sex would burn passion for each other that God coming judgement would be harsh on them plus other evils. Advice to the homos change!!

  7. kim

    Dear friends is important i let you know that the world is go to the end,, and no one will stop it,,God as worn us of what will happen in the end time,, know that the worse is coming, what you see is the beginning bad thing,, homosexuality has lesbianism is direct attack to foundation of the family that God ordaining from the beginning of the time.. those who do this works they have one reason and that is they mothers give them opportunity to live..
    WHAT WE NEED TO DO IS TO PRAY FOR THE PROTECTION OF FEW FAMILY,, YOUNG MEN AND YOUNG WOMAN THAT GOD WILL HELP US AS SOCIETY TO HEAR GOD,,THE is no mount of education, or money, or help,, can invested to help this problem that spiritual,,
    position yourself for soon the lord Jesus is coming soon… pst kimeli

  8. franko says

    this definitely seems to be a growing trend today, women going for other women now. much more women these days don’t want us good straight men anymore, and i can certainly see why that i have a problem meeting a good woman for me. i am not going to blame myself, since i did not do anything wrong. so many women today must have been so very badly abused by men at one time, and this definitely has messed them up pretty bad. there are a lot of us men available out there trying to find a woman to share a life with, but we seem to come across all these low life type of women now. what a shame.

  9. Emmy

    @Franko… I don’t believe that women or men for that matter should allow their bad relationship experiences to lead them into having sexual relations with members of the same sex. If anything there are still plenty of good women out there who are also looking for GOOD men to MARRY but the men have become so sly and they no longer even display the qualities that would attract such good women to them. Good men will always attract good women and vice-versa. I know from experience because I’m married to a wonderful man who thinks I’m the best thing that ever happened to him.

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