From: amenya gibson

Hi All,
As we ponder on what is happening to residents of Eastleigh especially
Somali community.

I will want to tell you something on marriage and its dynamics.

Currently we are witnessing alot of marriage disputes and divorces
cases being filed in our courts.

After 3 months research I have noticed that most of modern marriages
especially in our generation are likely to hit a cliff just after a
few years because of
1-Most young people rush into marriage without having properly
prepared themselves emotionally.
2-Also they are driven by material well being instead of true partnership.
3-A decline in parents and elders guidance and their role in helping
young people to make informed decisions in marriage.
4-Finance and Income seems to play a big role unlike in old days,you
will notice some of
modern marriage collapse when either partner loss his or her job or a
source of income.

5-Marriage imitations is on rise,some partners tend to imagine that
they can also live like so and so. especially celebrities

6-Lack of proper guidelines on each duty and responsibilities,it seems
some men seems
to have taken a back seat in helping or assisting in their marriage.
7-Some hide their true characters during dating or courtships,which
later complicates matters in marriages.Always be yourself.

A posiible solutions
1-Is important one takes time before you marry or are married,seek
advice from elders especially when you are below 25 years.
2-Respect and hard-work helps unite a family
Have a realistic budget plan to help you make informed decisions and
even help cushion you
when income goes south.
3-Avoid confrontations on matters that can be solved amicably.
4-Also try to seeking hand of God in all you do.

Thanks
Gibson Amenya
Raam Kenya Medical Agency

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