from k.
I need opinions and advise from my Kalenjin brothers and sisters. Please make me understand, where did the Luo community wrong our Kalenjin forefathers? I am dating a Luo man but my parents are so against it claiming that the Community disgust them. If you could post it on your wall and let people discuss about it but keep my identity a secret, I will highly appreciate. I really want to understand where my parents are coming from and may be assist me in making a wise decision for both my parents and relationship.
A sister in distress.
Can someone please help the sister out. Be mindful of others feelings when commenting.
Thanks.
Kalenjins are using this to attack luo on kalenjin beauty
If you read in the bible, at the begining you get that man sinned and was cursed.it was under the kinship curce only was revealed by jesus christ that before you are baptised you may be as good almost as angle but still leave the sin of inheritence.
And that is what i can advice you on since your parents are still living under the sin of inheritance.
Girl even if there wa some wrong as someone said that lets be good student to History but never be captive to History.Like all inter tribal marriage you have to understand the psychology of your parents and put them where they belong.Let me assured even your man knows that even his parents have a lot of disgust to your tribe but since he is a man(enough) he will never tell you.Why I belive he has made a decision its’ you.
So make up your mind before its too late going into old stories will not help your relationship. No one will decide for you, and I hope it wont be too late
Abide by your tribal cultures to avoid conflicting values.God was not a fool when he created the mankind and blessed them with their peculiar customs and cultures, so please obey your parents’ wise advice according to the BIBILIA.
Just as MK said, your parents have good intention and as aparent wish their children the best in life hence conclusion cames from you, My other advices is ask your close uncles, there is a smoke in the kitchen and henc the parents saw it when you were still young.
The your in south Rift were told but did not listen to wazee and hence they are now regarding
it is the culture and your father is trying to protect you from this, but if you have made up your mind the you can marry but workout before death do you part
Should a man choose his bride or should God choose on his behalf?