Sex is one subject that many of us would rather not talk about, and yet it has been a root cause of pain,stomach ulcers,torture and misunderstanding to many . Its effects has led to some,especially un married women, opting to take off their own lives!

The Lord of the universe,who knows the end from the beginning,allowed sex, but within certain perimeters! According to the Bible,sex is reserved for married people.

Some,deferring God’s word and conventional wisdom,have over the years,decided not to wait and instead have taken things into their own hands and went for it without any apologies,regrets,or any concern whatsoever!

What has been the outcome?

-A lot of children born outside wed lock. Some of those children have suffered emotional abuse as they found themselves here without their permission. To survive,they have had to move from one relative to another. Thanks to grand parents, and mostly grand mothers, who have always stepped in.

-Many young girls have been abandoned and left to struggle alone bringing up kids, that they did not plan for. Many have been forced to quit school.

-Many young girls have lost their lives in an attempt to abort!

-Many have lost their lives due to all kinds of diseases. Many have come to realize and admit the truth that there is no such thing like safe sex! Even when all think that everything is safe, lo and behold,they have been taken by surprise for the occurrence of the un-thinkable!

-Many young ladies have found it a huge mountain to be married with
a child/children! There are very few men who are willing to marry a woman with a child

How does it affect the men/boys?

-Their actions has led to many women/girls quiting school to take care of the kids.
-The un-fairness of abandoning the ones they once claimed to love.
-Child support for 18 years.
-The possibility of sickness and dead.
-The possibility of quiting school to work and take care of the child/children
-Pain,torture and too much conflict involving your wife and the child/children from outside wed lock!

When you consider all the above and many more,the only wise thing is for the un-married/boys to wait for the right! Will you?

Is there anyone out there who would like to chip in and help us see some more light? Any experience/practical examples?

Blessings.

Pr Birai
612-386-4608
www.pastorbirai.com

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From: Absalom Birai
Date: Tue, Aug 18, 2009 at 6:26 PM
Subject: Re: Sex before marriage: The wisdom of waiting!