Why go after my husband
Edit Link Published June 24th, 2009 in Uncategorized.
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Date: Tue, 23 Jun 2009 14:19:47 +0300
From: Joyce Waithaka
Subject: Why go after my husband
I found out my husband had a brief affair with someone I thought was my friend. She was someone I confided in and trusted.
your husband must be really handsome and equally generous.
Awuorou joluo modak US. En wach malit ka dhako maduong’ kaw chuor nyawadgi! Litna ndi. Ok ber ndiko nying ng’ato to awinjo malit ka dhako oa Kenya ndalo mokalo ka chuore oyude wang’ gi wang’ ka obayo gi ng’ato mit kuom rieko mar chuoreno, ok ogoye ngang’ oweye aweya. Dhakono odhi UK koda nyithinde ang’wen, kuno eka weche obedone matek ka ngima otame mit obiro US kaeri. To gima otimo en ni okawo chuor wadgi mana kaka nende atimo Kenya. Koro oketho od laktar e US kaeri. Dala mane laktar ogero higini 23. Yawa joluo, konyauru, anto an mana dhako kaka dhako wadwa ma okethne odeno.
Ka ngima tekni, ang’o mamoni manyo yo maber mar ngima? Ena ang’o ma ikelo dhao e od wadu?
Litna ndi.
Unbende chuo ere ber somou ka ok unyal penjoru ni ber koda rach en ang’o? Laktar mangima mobedo US higa 20 pod dhano ma class nono (FF) wuondi ni osomo MBA. Kawi koda yath! Penjri omera. Dog ikwa ng’uono. Nyithindi koda jaodi biro winjoi.
An Nyokelo.
Nyokelo, wach matimore eod ngato to litni why, los odi we donje od wadu, and nyisi dhako waduni kaotame to owerego, okne otweye kod welding kod chuore, to apenji nyarma aparoga ni America kuro ungeyo rights magu ma dichuo oknyal frustrate u, kara be uchal mana kodwa, gima mon obara go ndasi en ni when will they be empowered mondo gibed kaginyalo bedo kendgi so long as gin kod tich, ango maomiyo gitwere in useless marriages? Nyis dhako nyawadu niya, ochak ngima manyien owe ywagore ne dichuo, chuo to chuo duto mawacho adiera yudo tek, kendo dichuo maber enma otho.
Hi Joyce.
Sorry for your unfortunately stressing experience. A number of issues sarround this. B4 u start thinking of the woman as having faulted, begin with knowing the course. Infact the woman should be the last person to blame. Are you sure you do all that is expected of you as a wife at the right place and time? In other wards you can be the cause. If you are sure to be playing your part in favour of your husband then next, think of the husband to be on the wrong and inquire to know why. After-which, the woman can now come in. Else, check on your communication with your husband in the family. It can harbor much and magnify to such.
whats up with men and woman?sharon Obondo is a shame to women in general why destroy ngoes family and keep the man for yourself you should be ashamed and everything has an end to it you will surely pay dearly through God
let what God has joined together let no man put Asunder.Fight for your marriage on your knees unto God.
omera we uru tugo.
E madam remember that you were not born with the man,look for something to keep u occupied
Wake up and smell the coffee. This is the real world.
Of course a marriage that has been nurtured fo 23 years is not a marriage that can so easily be dissolved, especially if children are involved. It takes a lot of strength, for most women to just abandon their failed marriages but I believe in the long run it is the only solution when another woman is involved because there will likely be fights and so much unhappiness which can be worse than divorce. Women need to respect other womens’ homes and not even think of going there, but instead get their own men.
I think Joyce should not blame herself, If he wants to be involved with someone else, he will do it no matter how good a wife you are. The problem is him ,not the woman he is involved with.
Oten ne chuore gimoro kaka idwaro to obiro duogo a duoga.
Shag your husband’s best friend.
gima chuori otimo no okber.to bi se penjori gima nyamiyo otimre kamano?samoro ine mani pako chuori ir osiepni
Wach dak tek oko kaa jothurwa ! An be nomaya …..but av since moved on …..ok oyot ……av healed but pod an gi penjo mangeny e chunya …….are men really human?……dichuo mia go zero point koyudo mwandu lokore gimoro nono ……….mara noweya mokendo nurse ma mariestopes ………reason…….he is an african man and is allowed to marry as many wives as he dreams ……noparo ni ok anyal ……..i shocked him kane auso gari ma idho ndege ma aweye gi nyithindo ………i guess ni oyudo gima ne omanyo ……..onge haja tho ne wuod ngato miyudo ka duong …….after 15yrs of marriage naneno mach ……timuru arus jokamaa it helps ……nyombo mar joluo mar dhok hatari …..ayeuru ……aneno gi wanga ……..tholuro ……..strive for peace and happiness ……
Mano e ngima nyar wegi, ka oketo dichwo e varanda to donge ng’ato kawo kwani hujui mwanaume ni dhahabu
Mine nyaka chung motegno e defending there marriages
Owada uwacho awacha. I agree with Marylyn. It is painful. I have been a victim. Ne omaya chwora gi mama ma mbas Minwa. Ok ok oyot. What men wan nobody knows. But intrestingly, I also hit back at him very hard I got a much youngerman mane oolo pii ma ngich w chunya. Sani akwee moss ka pii soko.