Oyugis Woman says NO to husband’s new sex techniques.
Collins Odhiambo
Wed, Dec 23, 2009
What started as a mere bedroom squabble between a husband and his wife ended up with the woman leaving her matrimonial home.
The incident took place in Kasipul-Kabondo constituency on the outskirts of Oyugis town two Saturdays ago. The 39-year-old woman left after her husband, whom it later emerged is a porn addict, forced her to adopt new sex styles, 11 years after they got married.
According to a neighbour, the couple’s conflicting sexual preferences resulted in regular quarrels and fights.
Reading mischief in the husband’s sudden transformation, the woman reported it to the village elders and accused him of being unfaithful. According to the woman, the husband must have been cheating on her to learn such “weird styles”. The mother of two said the man was forcing her into positions that could make her throw up. “I have been asking him where he learnt such things, but he has refused to explain, and instead beat me up, insisting that I have to be flexible like other women, or cease to be his wife,” she complained.
According to the husband, they had lived for 11 years without a baby boy and he believed his new styles would work wonders.
Although the elders acknowledged he had a right to sex, they were unwilling to listen to his explanations because he had a poor reputation in the village. The man, who in his late 40’s, is a former primary school teacher, and was sacked over sexual scandals. According to an elder, the man was fired two years ago for attempting to defile a minor of nine.
Elders’ decision
The elders’ decision to force him to confess produced unanticipated results. After being whipped in front of women and children, the man pleaded for mercy and accepted to confess.
“I beg you people to forgive me so that I can confess. I watch pornographic films every evening at Oyugis town but I am not being unfaithful,” pleaded the man.
That evening the area chief, accompanied by the elders stormed the video show to see for themselves what went on there. To their surprise, there were rooms where men spent time with the young girls who usually attend the show.
The chief and his entourage impounded pornographic cassettes and magazines. Scores of young men and women were arrested. The video owner has since been arraigned in court.
The incident, which has been the talk of the village, has elicited mixed reactions. Many people have not been shy to give their opinion. According to a local council aspirant, pornography is the manual for exciting sex. However, staunch Christians think otherwise. According to them, pornography is to blame for the moral decadence in the region.
Meanwhile, the man’s wife has left with her two daughters to her parents’ home, saying she could not live with such a lecher who might soon turn to his own children. The man’s in-laws have refused to return the dowry, saying that it was their compensation after suffering disgrace from the man’s behavior.
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Ooooh My GOD! The ultimate destruction of an African family has arrived at Oyugis, my backyard!
This kind of behavior turns men into sex predators, child molesters, in breeders (having children with family members) and people with no sexual boundaries.
You do not want a person addicted to this stuff in your neighborhood because the person has no qualms about having such sex episodes with both boys and girls, regardless of age. In other words, your babies are at risk!
The people engaged in the production, promotion and distribution of such materials are capable of kidnapping young girls and boys, including babies. Should a victim survive such an ordeal, the psychological damage done by the exposure or production of such filthy films is usually irreversible!
Characters involved in such trade are shadowy, deceitful and very dangerous to young children. They lure many young children coming from very poor families into this trade using money! All African children are vulnerable. Some of these young children could be your own, your nephews, your nieces walking from school or at home alone, while parents or relatives are at work. The predators preying on such young children could be your next door neighbour or a teacher at the primary school your children or relatives attend!
The people who have introduced the filth to Africa are hell bent on destroying the fabric of an African family and its structure for good! To me, this is the most efficient way of destroying a race. This is the kind of stuff that has left many Americans of African origin without proper families!!! Without strong family bond and values, a human family is merely a ticking time bomb.
Recently, a French minister traveled all the way to Thailand to have sex with the poor and disadvantaged Thai boys in Bangkok. This guy happens to be the current French Culture Minister Frédéric Mitterand, a nephew of a former French Prime Minister. He went there to have sex with the boys!! Read the rest of the story of this well connected pedophile on this link and warn your families and neighbors!
THERE ARE INNOCENT CHILDREN WHO MAY BE LURED INTO THIS AND BE DESTROYED FOR GOOD BECAUSE SOMEONE HAS DECIDED TO EARN MONEY USING AND DESTROYING OTHER PEOPLES CHILDREN!!
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/europe/article6865085.ece
THE GOVERMENT SHOULD KEEP THIS IMMORAL ANIMAL SOMEWHERE AT KODIAGA OR KAMITI MUXIMUM PRISON TO HELP CUB SUCH ILLEGALITY. THE OWNERS OF THE BROTHEL SHOULD ALSO FACE THE SAME PENALTY.
I do not know of any African family, no matter how poor, who would want their offspring to be ravaged by the introduction of “Western Erotic sexual Techniques”. Africans, at least the ones from my tribes, love their children and despite their poor circumstances, want them to have strong undiluted family bonds without which nobody can be normal!
The western people obsessed with exploiting human sexuality for financial gains, are globetrotting to exploit the poverty in the third world countries and push the moral envelops in order to make money and ravage the children in process.
In Sub-Saharan Africa, the western foreigners have a strangle hold on the corrupt ruling elites who are willing to bend the rules and laws in their favors. These African elites have allowed them to plunder the natural resources and confiscate the land by killing or displacing African poor.
Now, they are allowed to descend on African poor families in rural areas like the wolves on flock of sheep! Some of these foreigners have set up very sketchy NGOs as fronts to get in touch with very trusting, naive and poor local population and their young children. The setting up of some of these NGOs is done in order to circumvent any laws.
The failure in governance by African elites have prompted the many of these despicable man-eat-man western characters to think that having sex with poor African children is part of what they must grab! Since they can bend the local laws, nothing will happen to them even if they murder their young victims!
Poor African children are now on the menu because the rich elites can take good care of their own children!
Indeed am very surprised at the shock waves hitting Kenyan villages in 2009. I saw my cousin watching porno in Nairobi back in 1994.
Pornographic is very very simple. You watch movies of naked women and men doing everything.The main elements include a man licking a woman`s vagina and by large women sucking men`s dick/cock/penis, whatever you call it.To some extreme you find a man tearing another man`s anus or a man tearing a woman`s anus/ass.Is that the problem? Absolutely not!
Sex was designed as a way of procreation, if you want go the Biblos way.To most in the world, it is a source of entertainment. Before I came to America, I only knew to sleep on top of a woman. A man`s strength was measured on how long a woman cry beneath. I did not know whether the woman was crying over my weight or “Digol” was making new holes inside.That changed in 1996, when a woman sucked my dick. My body trembled with joy,shivered in endless ecstasy and for the first time I spoke in Turkana language. I said things like my mother am dying tonite!
“Why are you freaking out ,yo?”:The American woman asked. My answer was somehow incoherent;
“I thought…I thought the world was ending today”.
That was that.
This is what I know.
Africans do sex the best way our ancestors left it to us. But things have changed alot. We no longer scratch our foot on the ground when talking with women. We no longer use outdated methods of finding women. We have become extra-ordinary in many ways. We no longer walk long distance. We have cell phones for faster communications. We text. We need to revolutionize sex.Our women, be it Luo or other tribes, deserve men who can perform at least 10 sexual styles in 1 month. We need our women to enjoy the best they can get. We need to teach our women to wash their vagina more than their breast, cos that is the most important part of the body.
Very few people will tell you the truth, cos sex to most people is shrouded in secrecy. But this I do know. Many Africans, including Luos are eating/licking women’s ass over in foreign countries.They feel embarrassed to come out of the closet and educate our people. If you still practice primitive sexual practices, still thinking pornography is exotic, you will be left behind, or you will keep on loosing women to other men who have gone a step ahead. Luo women in America are moving to men from Nigeria and other West African countries, who have perfected the act. It is better I let you know the truth, than leave you with an outdated practice, like “tero mon”, thinking you are with the people.
As we start 2010, we need to know that pornography doesn`t make you sleep with little children. Raiding stores are pure nonsense. We need to stop panic attack and live for posterity. Proper sex education, from primary school onwards, will make us achieve higher level of satisfaction.
Jaramogi Akajo Ochieng Otira,
You are a witch! kidding, man, do not take it serious!
You are sincere though, but still, the gentleman, the Oyugis Husband should have tried a diplomatic way. Introduce her woman, slowly, while testing her feeling about this foreign acts!
Most of us who live in sweet dear Africa, we are not used to those things that you guys in foreign lands do! So forgive our short – un sophisticated life style!
We are used to the old way of doing things, in the manner of my grandfather and my grand mother! A woman on her back! that is it! No lickings or, or, any other horrors, that make you speak in Turkana or any other an un-usual languages!
We are used to communicating in our mother tongue only! Therefore if your partner all of a certain without even the intervention of the Holy Ghost starts to speak in other tongues, we shall assume they are possessed or are under some horrible mental break down!
But when your husband or your woman comes up with shocking ideas such as the Oyugis brother’s porno-room’s. Man we shall marshall the village help to set such demented minds upright!.
Yes, we shall use the aiding hand of ” Whipping ” The advise to our overseas friends are this; ” We do not want strange acts in our bedrooms! When you com home, leave them there. When you return to ” Ulaya ” you can then resume your way of life! ”
Untill a better way is developed, we are going to stay as we have been.
EN LAI { old fashioned guy }
i want to thank the woman and the chief for their action. the man should be investigated further and proper disciplinary action taken. i believe he is not alone in behavior because idont think he watches these pornographics alone.
this was the first to be noticed. other women could be suffering in silence.
put the names of the video owner and the man on the print and all electric media, victoria, ramogi, all radio stations to make the public aware.
thank for sharing this info.
This is a disgrace! Unfortunately this is the harsh reality in today’s modern world. Its a real shame though. I am very happy that the woman used her initiative to seek help and succeeded.
I would like to say the woman was right to leave so the she can have peace. The husband was soon becoming irresponsible, and sooner or later, would start having sex with the younger children.
I dont understand how a 40 year old nomal man can watch a ponographic film, things being watched by teenages.
Big hug woman, you did a nice thing
A lot of cultural inhibitions and secrecy surrounding sex and related subjects has led to the so called moral decadence in Oyugis town and the rest of rural Nyanza. It has nothing to do with western influence. It is also commonplace in this kind of society to marry somebody with whom we share no interest, mistakes we only discover when the initial passion dies, hence we have crises like the one above.