So do you think that you know your wife, husband, children, mother, father, brother, sister, neighbor, work mate or friends? Well, you need to think again! Why so?

As it is, we are not always together with our loved ones! And so from time to time, we hear of stuff they are either saying or doing. Occasionally, we hear of how mean they are when out there!

As expected, we always come up with the best defence or go round fighting to prove that what others describe of our loved ones is not true! Ever found yourself in such a situation! Allow me to share with you what I have either heard or experienced!

1.When out there, our loved ones are really mean to others. They use
a language you can not believe! They even intimidate others or threaten them!

2.When out there, our loved ones share information which they are not supposed to. When asked, they deny vehemently!

3.When out there, our loved ones are not the Christians that we think they are are!

4.When out there, our loved ones are super rude to the employers, teachers
or fellow workers!

And because of one or all of the above, be very careful on,

1.How you defend/fight for them!
2.What you share for it will sure come out!
3.How you react when you receive evil report on them!

A failure to pay attention to the above three, will lead to one of the following:

1.People will not trust you with information for they now know that you will leak it out
2.You will loose friends/customers!

Do you see my point!

Just a thought!

Pr Birai
612-386-4608
www.themaranathasdachurch.org

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Date: Fri, 5 Sep 2008 14:42:14 -0700 (PDT)
From: Absalom Birai
Subject: Re: Before you defend/fight for loved ones !